Agents of Transformation: Getting Out of a Narcissistic Relationship, with therapist Susannah Furr

Have you ever wondered if you were/are in a relationship with a narcissist?  After 20 years of experience as a therapist, Susannah realized she was in one—and the trauma bond was hard to break. 

In this interview with therapist Susannah Furr, we explore 

  • the red flags that you might be with a narcissist, 

  • understanding why you can be magnetized to narcissists,

  • how to reorient yourself

  • how to safely extricate yourself 

  • and the importance of setting boundaries.  

Most importantly, we explore an expansive viewpoint on why experiencing the pain of narcissism—and extrication from it—might be a good thing.

https://youtu.be/0EOeskokTAQ

Here are the top signs that you’re in a narcissistic relationship:

  • love bombing that shifts into devaluation

  • feeling unsafe, like you’re walking on eggshells

  • intense control (isolating you)

  • gaslighting or reality distortion 

  • lack of empathy 

  • blame shifting (DARVO)

Susannah Furr, M.Ed., is a Licensed Professional Counselor with 30+ years’ experience in the healing arts. She is an Empowered Solar Priestess, Gene Key guide and an Agent for Conscious Evolution trained by Barbara Marx Hubbard. Susannah manages Oxford Healing Arts, a counseling practice in Oxford, MS, with services including: counseling sessions, intuitive consultations, meditations, classes, workshops, and retreats. In addition, she holds public sound journeys using chant, drumming, and crystal singing bowls. 

Susannah’s website: www.nowawakenow.com

Melody LeBaron